Today Tania and I planned to meet at the outdoor Fultonvale arena, but since it was pouring rain, we switched to 3D Equestrian Ctr. Tania has been to Parelli clinics as well as various reining clinics and helped me out a bit by sharing some of her reining experiences.Because Gypsy usually interprets any leg pressure as "go forward", we worked on getting her to yield to the leg pressure rather than move forward. One thing was trying to get her to differentiate whether I wanted to move her front end vs her hind end. Tania suggested I may be quitting before she gets it and/or maybe not having a strong enough phase 4, because Gypsy frequently ignores my leg. We worked on leg yields while up against a wall. She was really good to the left, but struggled moving off my leg to the right. I kept at this for quite a while until she was responding relatively consistently, then moved on to trying to get her to yield one way or the other while moving. She seems to forget everything once she's moving!
Most of the time Gypsy would drift off the rail toward the middle of the arena (and completely avoided one side of the arena with a cutting dummy mounted on it... seems she didn't like the wires much... maybe reminded her of electric fence??), so I worked on getting her to yield off my leg. When I added leg pressure while we were moving forward, again she interpreted as go faster. So for a while we had a bit of a battle -- her moving forward instead of off my leg, then also pushing through the bit as well. Tania felt that if I got spurs, she wouldn't push through my leg. All I'd need is to let her know the spurs were there for phase 4 if needed, but don't use them unless she ignored me. Might be something to consider because I was digging my heel into her
side with no effect except her thinking "go faster."A couple times I got frustrated and emotional, but managed to work through it, and by the end of the day, even though it wasn't perfect, Gypsy was starting to respond.
After all that I also worked on softening and collecting her (see attached video clip...much of the background noise is the rain on the roof) . She still tosses her head a fair bit. She frequently finds the sweet spot where I release to her, but doesn't stay there. She's also better going left than right. Her head pops up more when we're going right. But I have to say, I am pleased with her progress considering I only tried this for the first time at the Parelli clinic a few weeks ago.
After that we also tried cantering (above photos). Each time we try this, it gets better and better. She's picking up the canter quicker, managing to maintain gait longer and today even let me pick up the reins a bit without breaking to a trot. Long way to go before it's nice and soft and responsive, but we're making progress!
Anyway, I came away from this with some good encouragement from both Tania and Stacey (one of the owners of 3D who was also riding there) as well as some ideas for improving Gypsy's sensitivity to my cues. Really appreciate their help!








